bob
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Post by bob on Nov 21, 2023 7:07:48 GMT -5
So here's a debate I saw on social media. Places like Facebook allow everyone to share so much and you can go back through a person's posts and pics and see a snapshot of their lives. It's almost like a public diary. When couples break up, people commonly delete pics of their exes. Should they? Should they be expected to erase all mention of their exes, or at least photos of them and with them?
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Post by camila on Nov 21, 2023 7:55:21 GMT -5
Yes. I wouldn't want Chuck holding onto a bunch of old pictures of his exes. What's he need them for?
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Post by Yeti on Nov 21, 2023 8:47:31 GMT -5
I get why people feel you need to erase your exes, but your exes are a part of your past and helped shape your life experiences and who you are. They're characters in your life story. Erasing all memory of them is like erasing part of your life story.
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Post by Jörmungandr on Nov 21, 2023 13:57:05 GMT -5
You make an interesting point.
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Post by Paladin on Nov 22, 2023 22:41:22 GMT -5
I suppose deleting exes from existence is about jealousy and maybe, at least on occasion, shame.
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Post by bob on Nov 24, 2023 0:08:56 GMT -5
People need to grow up a bit and stop being so controlling and possessive. Expecting your new partner to wipe out any reference or memory of their exes are clearly driven by jealousy.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 26, 2023 20:16:20 GMT -5
I don't have exs only former partners. Once I'm bored with them it's time for them to leave.  |
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